Do you remember the blog I posted at the beginning of 2008? To refresh your memory, it was a blog that outline my goals for 2008. And I am proud to say that I have almost all of my goals for 2008 completed. Does this mean I can stop trying to do things since I almost have everything done? Absolutely not! Just because one goal gets completed doesn’t mean I’m off the hook. I am constantly striving to improve myself in every aspect. That’s what life is, at least my life. Of course it’s always great to be happy with how you are, but I think we can all agree that there is some aspect of our lives that we can improve upon. For me, there are many areas that I need to focus on, and I intend to do so.
Here is the list from January: ( goals with an X next to them have been completed)
1. Be a kinder, more socialable, more outgoing person [X]
2. Let the people who are close to me know exactly how much I care [X]
3. Be a better son [X]
4. Be a better grand son [X]
5. Be a healthier person [X]
6. Finally get a six pack (and no not of beer) [X]
7. Get my finances in order [X]
8. Have school under control at ALL times [Eh I tried]
9. Join ASG (associated student government) [X]
10. Finish ELI (emerging leaders institute) [X]
11. Make it on the Dean’s List (4.0 and higher) [Keeping my fingers crossed!]
12. Get a 4.0 [Keeping my fingers crossed!]
13. Excel in Cal Soap and as a Student Ambassador [X]
14. Sell all of my cars and find a cheap reliable one [X, halfway there!]
15. Apply to Berkeley
16. Donate more time to charity [X]
17. Become a note taker for someone with a disability in my class [X]
18. Maintain all relationships and never burn any bridges… [X]
19. And most of all… be myself. [X]
The list has been expanded since then, and seems to expand more and more everyday. This is my process of becoming who I want to be, and setting goals and taking the necessary steps to complete them will help me develop as a person. I just always tell myself the sky’s the limit and I think it’s true. There should never be something inhibiting you from being exactly what you want to be. Of course for some the obstacles are greater than others, but one should enjoy those obstacles because that will make the victory that much sweeter. Getting things handed to you in life truly has no value to it because you will truly never appreciate what ever was given to you like you would if you had worked for it. At least that how I feel about everything I do. I work hard for everything I have and everything I have done. I take pride in myself and the work I do, and I believe it shows.
So what are your goals for this year? Have you been completing them or taking the necessary steps to ensure they will be completed to 2009? If you haven’t set up any goals for this year you might want to consider giving it a try. Your goals don’t need to be ridiculously gnarly, like winning the lottery or something. Instead make it an achievable goal that you believe you could accomplish in a year. Granted being ambitious is a good thing, but being overly ambitious will only set you up for failure. But none the less, if you try and give it your all you can never truly have any regrets. At least that’s how I feel.